Addendum

So, the girls went to their dad's for a week...my youngest came back the other night and I asked her how her dad was doing (okay, I was fishing a bit)...and this is what she told me...

"Okay, I guess. He had a long conversation on the phone with Mary and came in afterwards and said he thinks they are pretty much done, after that conversation. Then he went on to say that Mary is going through menopause and he gets both the bad swings and the good swings"....to which my not-so-dumb daughter responded..."Dad...now you're going to blame your problems on menopause?"