Heavy negotiations going on here...I am confused...but trying to hang onto sanity and some sense of the possibility of resolution. Still trying to work it out so I can stay here in this place, but the thought of the mortgage is scary...no scarier I guess, than any other mortgage though...so what is the point of moving? I have credit card statements (most...) and have asked my attorney to go for a 'continuance', so I have a bit of time to peruse them. Already found a bit of business debt not accounted for...oops...