Advice

Instead of just listening to him today, I let my emotions get the better of me and I started offering up all kinds of condemnation and unsolicited advice. BOO Lydia.. I just could not help myself. I want to be his confidante but I am not going to commiserate with him. Have you ever loved someone so much that you just want them to be happy whatever that looks like for them.
On the other hand if he is too stupid to know that I am someone who cares for him and has his best interest at heart then so be it. He can find some stupid woman and lay his head on her pillow while she coddles his ego and enables him to ruin his life. However, if he ever decides he wants a real friend that doesn't want to fuck him or see him fuck himself then he knows where to find me.